In life, we can never avoid the struggle. it is universal. We all feel it and all are changed by it.
The coping stage will always be different on every individual and their varied mechanisms with which they find peace and happiness.
In this society where it is now filled with such strife and discombobulation of everything around us. it is a place that is suffocating, and this makes it even more difficult to find positivity in struggles and pain. It’s no wonder so many people feel rushed to find where they belong and where exactly they fit in in a wonky puzzle.
Let me tell you this, despite everything around you. Don’t forget to be just you! own everything with enthusiasm and power within you. You have the power to control your thoughts, words and how you live your life. Everyone is fighting their own battle. But what makes you different?
You are stronger than you realize. You’re a warrior whose fight does not go unnoticed. You have been thrown some very difficult challenges, but you fail to back down and fail to cower in fear.
At the end of the day, you watch the sun go down with pride, looking forward to the next day with a one of a kind enthusiasm and exuberance.
You have the strength of both a queen and a king, and you have the mentality many could only dream of. You are a special person created with a unique purpose with a plan that will shine like the world’s brightest star. Hang in there. Good things are coming, Fierce!
You are amazing!
There is no one like you in this entire universe. There is no one who has gone through what you have gone through and survived the way you have. There is no one like you who enjoys the same things that you enjoy. That place where you find your innermost peace, no one experiences that like you. The memory you have of that one special conversation, that concert, or that rush of excitement… no one can take that from you and no one experienced it quite like you.
When you feel like the odd one out…the ugly duckling…the weirdo…remember that you are one of a kind and this world needs you.
Life can beat you down and try to make you feel insignificant. It can try to make you feel like you are nothing in this world with what it can throw at you. It can try to make you think you can’t do anything right.
What it can’t do is respond for you. It cannot determine how you respond to it. It can try, but it fails every single time. You determine how you respond to the world, and your experiences can help others.
When you’ve lost a close loved one, you’re a testament as to how to survive. When you’ve been rejected, you’re showing others it’s possible to be strong. When you’re sick, your mental resilience is proof that you are stronger than the illness. Your life is a testimony.
There is nothing to be ashamed of. There is nothing to be embarrassed about. Take joy in the things that bring you joy. Like the things you like. Be proud of who you are and where you’ve come from.
Don’t forget to keep learning. The changes that you’ve seen from who you were back then to who you are today are only possible with the ability to learn and adapt. You have adapted and changed as time went on. Adaptation makes you stronger. Learning makes you stronger. Be a lifelong learner.
Take risks. So what if you fail? You’re a lifelong learner, right? You find what didn’t work and begin again. Risks are what make the differences in this world. Without them, it’s the status quo, and there is no one in the world exactly like that.